Ex-boyfriends are a funny species. Especially when they are fairly newly ex. While I am comfortable to go out with exs from a long time ago, I really get, in a funny way quite uncomfortable about meeting my immediate ex. It might be because I still have some secret feelings for him, or because I’m just not comfortable to openly flirt with other people while he is around.
This weekend, I met my ex for some drinks, and exactly that happened. We went to a club, and I got talking to someone who was absolutely the most handsome guy around. It turned out, we also had a lot of common interests, which made it really enjoyable.
The problem: How to proceed with the ex standing next to you? I had the choice, obviously, to either ignore my ex and just carry on with the new guy – or not going full steam ahead with the new guy.
In the end I chose the latter – and decided to leave fairly early with my ex, and no one else. And although I think it could have been really nice to go further with the new guy, somehow I feel that I am just not ready to jump as yet, or maybe it just wasn’t the right day – but somehow it was strange to make that choice. Especially, as I know that if my ex would not have been there, I know I would have had a lot more fun that night.
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With regard’s to ex’s…I met my current partner shortly after I moved to Asheville, North Carolina (USA) from Naples, Florida. Luckily, all of my ex’s are in Florida and I don’t have to worry about running into them or managing awkward conversations.
Your leanings toward your ex intrigues me…Perhaps there is still something there? 🙂